Friday's & Living with a Dumb Ass

Friday is by far the best day of the week - get to wear jeans to work, knowing I'll have the whole weekend with Maddy, usually have something fun to do that night. Not today. This Friday is starting off completely horrible.

First of all, I am having the period from hell. Floodgates. Horrible.

Maddy didn't wake up this morning, so I only got to stare at her sleeping (she's still so amazing) before I left - just kissed her head.

The entire drive in this morning, I was trying to figure out in my head if I could survive if I left my husband. Then, when I got to work, I realized that is totally NOT what I wanted to do, but that my husband is like any typical man and just doesn't realize what he's doing sometimes... He "cleaned" the house yesterday and made a big federal case about it last night. Like I should be kissing his feet because he did some dishes and wiped off a few tables. Please. While he played softball last night, I fed Maddy her cereal, gave her a bath, put her to bed, did a load of her laundry, folded the load of towels he left in the dryer, and before I even did all of that I had gone to Wal-Mart for some things I needed for the BIL's bachelorette party tomorrow night and for some additional baby feeding things for Maddy (another kind of cereal, baby foods and juice). I just wanted to stock up the pantry, so when she's ready I can just start introducing new things to her without having to run to the store every 5 minutes. Anyhow, he makes this big stink because when he got home there was some glitter on the counter and starts screaming about how I need to pick up after myself.

OK - he's an idiot. He was home all day. When I got home Maddy was still in her pajamas. He had ordered a pizza for dinner and our bedroom still looked like a bomb went off in there. He did not "clean" the house. He cleaned the kitchen and wiped off the glass tables in the living room, but he went on and on about how I should appreciate it when he makes the "house" spotless, blah, blah. Whatever. Today, he is going golfing and leaving Maddy with his mom. Normally, this wouldn't bother me, but today I am fuming about this because Maddy is staying overnight with his mom tomorrow because I have BIL's bachelorette party at our house. So, she's going to have Maddy all day today and all night tomorrow. Ugh.